| Premature ejaculation is a widespread intimate concern among men. Actually, one man out of three complains that they ejaculate too quickly. Of course, sometimes these fears are groundless, as many women dislike long hour sex sessions.
Even if a man is not excited about going all night, he will probably wish to continue more than three minutes! Thus, if you are convinced that you do climax too quickly, there are a few things you can try right off for a quick fix. Naturally, they all withdraw some of your pleasure. You can try either wearing a condom, or applying commercial creams to delay the climax. You can also try masturbating before a hot date. Having cummed once in a day, it takes longer to come a second time.
However, there are other ways for more satisfying sexual life. New amazing man's experiences can be enjoyed if you learn to have non-ejaculatory orgasms.
Man expanded orgasm is known as the ability of a man to have two or more orgasms without a rest period, and to maintain an erection between orgasms.
The secret lies in the ability to have an orgasm without actual ejaculation. Studies have shown that it is possible to have a great orgasm, complete with with pleasurable sensations of the rhythmic contractions, without an actual ejaculation. This phenomenon has been known to many eastern cultures for years, as evidenced by tantric books.
There are several methods of becoming multi-orgasmic. The easiest method is called Finger Draw. This method uses three curved fingers to pressure one spot on the perineum at the point of no return. Locate the pressure point at mid perineum. Apply pressure to the perineum with three slightly curved fingers as soon as you feel ejaculation is imminent. Some practitioners advise practicing during masterbation because it is difficult to find the right spot. When you find the spot, don't expect a miracle to happen right away. This takes time and determination. But it is still worth the trouble.
Some men train themselves to get muliple orgasms by pulling back at the last possible second before ejaculation. Do this patch masturbating. Continue stimulation to the point of imminent orgasm. Then you should stop and not resume stimulation until the decline of your excitement level. With regular practice, you should be able to experience the contractions of orgasmic release without ejaculating.
Another technique requires trained pelvic muscles which can be achieved with regular kegel exercises. When the ejaculation is imminent, stop thrusting the penis. Withdraw to about one inch of penetration without entire withdrawal. Flex the pelvic muscle and hold to a count of nine. Alternately, flex the pelvic muscle ninefold rapidly instead of holding the count. Resume thrusting shallowly and repeat as often as necessary until you get a non-ejaculatory orgasm.
Try each of these techniques to find the one that suits you best, and remember that the best thing you can do during sex is have fun and relish what you're doing! |
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